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      I can't get married...because of money

      billboss31
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      Posted by billboss31

      on Jun 25, 2007

      I've been with my beautiful and caring fiancee Jennifer since our freshman year in college, November 7, 1998...we've been engaged since March 5, 2002.  We're still not married.  We both want to get married.  Nothing fancy, but not just the courthouse either.  We want our family and some of our friends to come, and would like to have a little get together to celebrate our union.  However, after continuing on to graduate school in Savannah, we've accumulated over $100K in student loans.  After struggling through 3 years of graduate school and completing our goals, we can no longer afford to marry.  The college debt and credit card debt is that deep.  I would marry Jenn tomorrow if I could give her the wedding and financial security that she so deserves!  However, at this rate I fear that even as two people with promising careers (I'm a teacher, she is an interior designer) we'll never be able to get married, never have children, and never have a home to call our own.  I just wish life wasn't so hard some times.  All one wants to do is provide the security and family that someone as wonderful and supportive as Jenn deserves.  I thank you for your time.

      Sincerley,

      BK

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